Baby Fever

I get asked all the time why I don't want/have kids! Or I get that pity eye. Yup! That one right there! I caught it! I recently read excerpts from Jennifer Aniston's interview in the September 2018 InStyle magazine and I want to scream, "YES!". Because, basically, this is how I would respond to this... Continue Reading →

The Time Between

He will love Bruce Springsteen and other storyteller musicians and he will tell me this passionately at his sister’s art show And he will drink his coffee black while reading the morning news–moved by the good and never defeated by the bad. He will know the scientific names of plants and herbs, especially the fun,... Continue Reading →

My Side Of The Bed

"When you don't know how to live without, you stay trapped within." -kmd I recently dated a man off and on for 3 years. Fumbling around after a terrible relationship, I was binge drinking and on the rebound when he found me. He lulled me into his life one guitar riff at a time. This... Continue Reading →

That’s The Way Love Flows

I have a good friend who is trying really hard to get over a past love. He hears songs, sees signs and is reminded of her constantly. It's painful, I know. I'm going through something similar myself. Urgently we talk and he searches for some reason for these signs. I tell him that, perhaps his... Continue Reading →

How To Love A Narcissist

"You can judge behavior without condemning a soul." -Bryant McGill I've noticed that "Narcissist" and "Sociopath" are huge buzz words on the internet and in psychology right now.  I've done a ton of reading on this personality trait and the personality disorder of narcissism.  I've dated narcissistic men.  I've even been guilty of being a bit narcissistic... Continue Reading →

In The Name of Love

I was just thinking about the one quality that I love in people.  It's a quality that can't be faked.  It's not a sense of humor.  That can be disguised by sarcasm.  It's not a pretty face.  That can be photo shopped.  It's not in the eyes--not everyone will look at you.  It's not loyalty... Continue Reading →

You Have A Choice

When it comes to buying diamonds, you have a choice.  In fact, if you choose not to buy them at all you will be helping fight terrorism, genocide, and war. Seriously.  Don't buy diamonds. Here's why:  "A diamond is worthless if someone had to die to get it." "Diamonds are forever" is an "idea" that has... Continue Reading →

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